SMS 009: No, we are not talking about No. (Emotional Intelligence, Emotional Resilience and Emotional Sustenance.)

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Topics

  • What do emotional Vata, Pitta, and Kapha look like when in balance?
  • Do you have happy moments or a happy life? 
  • What do emotional Vata, Pitta and Kapha look like when out of balance?
  • Do you hold any grudges? Vie still wants her dollhouse. 
  • How to build your emotional foundation.
  • Can you identify your emotions?
  • Why just taking turmeric won’t help you create a rich emotional world.
  • Commodity Ayurveda is wrong once again. 
  • The Greek definition of Sin.
  • Mercury, Odin, Hermes and Emeralds.
  • A Greek proverb.

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The Spartan mind strength podcast the
podcast for mental grit and resilience

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hosted by Vie Binga and Tim Ganley --

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Hello! Hi Everyone, this is Vie -- and this is Tim -- and we welcome you to another
episode of our spartan mind strength

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podcast -- we're here in Florida we just
spent the last day and a half traveling

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back from Greece to here and we're gonna
be here for a couple days we decided to

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talk about
ohi today -- Ohi! are you sure about that? --

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No -- Ohi is the Greek word for no and
since we just spent six weeks hearing

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that word pretty much all the time we
figured we had to share it with you. Stay

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tuned we'll be right back.

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And we're back so today's episode is
brought to you by Raja Ayurveda -- Ayurveda

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for the mind -- And since it is Ayurveda
for the mind we're going to be talking

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about emotional intelligence and we're
going to be looking at emotional

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intelligence through an Ayurvedic aspect
so please tell us what is emotional

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intelligence while I drink coffee -- Ayurveda
says that emotionally when you look at

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people you see three main different
types and you have probably heard these

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words before if you have listened to our
podcast and the three different types

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are Vata Pitta kapha Vata emotionally
has to do with keeping an open mind and

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will be going back and forth between
mind and emotions because they are

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interconnected, our mind determines our
emotions and vice versa so emotional

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vata is somebody who just doesn't sweat
the small stuff has a wider perspective

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doesn't get easily offended doesn't get
stuck with the little things and vata's

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key word is all about movement so
movement being flexible. Pitta emotionally

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is somebody who has courage and strength
and keeps moving forward no matter what

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pitta is driven so you you would think of
more like emotional resilience -- I like that word -- yeah so

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vata is more emotional intelligence
bigger perspective pitta is more

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emotional resilience you you just when
you hear no when you hear ohi you

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figure out okay how can I make this
happen how can I work with this person

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and make things happen even though they
are telling me no right now and because

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pitta is all about transformation that's
the key word  -- transforming that ohi

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into a nai -- exactly your Greek is so
good and then kapha emotional kapha is

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somebody who has empathy who has
compassion who who's who says okay this

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person is telling me no right now
because of who knows what's happening to

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them
who knows what battle they have to go

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through right now
so I'm not gonna take it personal and

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I'm just gonna have compassion I'm gonna
have empathy and I'm gonna see how I can

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work with them how I can make them feel
better actually it's more about the

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other person about understanding why the
this adversity may be happening -- and that

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that would fall into almost like
negotiations -- yes and emotional

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sustenance you would call that
sustenance and exactly you would go

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into negotiation with them because
kapha's key word is stability so

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sustenance so you have emotional
intelligence in terms of vata emotional

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resilience in terms of pitta and
emotional sustenance in terms of kapha

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-- so those things all together can create a --
a very very rich

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emotionally complete person -- and that
makes you have a very happy -- a very happy

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life not just happy moments in your life
you have a very happy life you have

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contentment -- very nice so we'll be right
back with how you are when you're out of

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balance -- oh no but stay tuned it's gonna
be interesting

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love to hear from you

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and we're back so we just talked about
kapha pitta vata in balance

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-- yes -- and now can you give a little bit of
what they are like when they're out of

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balance which is sort of like what most
people are -- yeah and you know -- not all

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people --  we are all going to
recognize ourselves in this but that's

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okay as long as we recognize ourselves
vata, vata is all about movement so

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emotional vata out of balance is
movement of emotions the emotions are

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all over the place good and bad all over
the place they are not consistent

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emotional vata they just start crying
right away without any significant

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reason when somebody tells them no
somebody tells them something they don't

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like they feel offended and they just
start crying turning within -- okay --

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pitta out of balance is getting angry and
yelling and screaming and disrespecting

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the person in front of them like like an
immature

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you know dictator like person -- an
immature dictaror? -- an immature as opposed to a mature dictator yeah

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that didn't come out too good but you
get the idea like a little kid throwing

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a tantrum that's you know if they don't
get their it's their way or the

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highway pretty much but a lot of strong
fire and then kapha out of balance kapha

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is all about stability and sustenance so
kapha out of

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balance gets stuck they have
emotional attachment so they are the

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person who's gonna hold a grudge forever
they won't cry they won't scream and

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yell you won't know but they are going
to hold that grudge they do not forgive

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easily -- is that the type of person that
just sticks to the past always and doesn't

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move forward at all -- exactly that's yeah
they that's they get stuck in the

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past but you don't necessarily know
about it, it's very, it's kept more

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deep down -- and there's they and then that
would also have the anger because the

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kapha kicks in --  yes it can bring
out anger but but usually when the

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kapha is stronger than the pita the anger
won't come out until a lot later so it's

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that so you'd rather you know having to
choose between pitta out of balance or

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kapha out of balance you're safer with
pitta out of balance because they are

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just gonna scream and yell and then
they'll forget about it and then you're

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best friends and drinking together -- ok
so I have a question is which one goes

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out of balance first? --
Oh vata vata is the quickest to go out

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of balance so the the person whose
emotions are all over the place who gets

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sad very easily vata is typically
the quickest to go out of balance and

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then vata can push pitta and then vata
can turn into anger so it may start as

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vata and if it's not being recognized
on time then it will push pitta

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and then you will have the anger -- and
then pitta going out of balance can then

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push kapha out of balance? -- exactly and then and then you have serious problems you know if

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the three bioenergies like that go
out of balance then you have serious

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problems that's why you want to take
care of the vata as quickly as

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possible -- so I'm going to go in reverse
though since you want to take care of

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that first I'm gonna go into what if
kapha is out of balance what can you do

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to bring kapha back into balance so that
you don't have the extremes? --  having

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having a solid kapha emotional
characteristic is very important because

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kapha is your foundation you want you
want that stability so to to make sure

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that you have you have a solid
emotional kapha you you want to you want

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to pay attention to how how your
emotions are you you want to look within

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and say have I been holding anything
have I have I come into terms with my

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past or am I still mad at my father
mother grandparents siblings and all

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that do I hold any grudges do I have any
any traumatic experiences that I haven't

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let go of for example myself I had I had a
doll house that I wanted my parents

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to buy me when I was a little kid -- and
you still want it -- I still want the doll house

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and I remember how my mom didn't
want me to get that doll house and she had

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explained to me why and even though I
was really traumatized

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then and I was really annoyed I
still thank her to this day I'm still

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grateful that she didn't let me have my
way so so I am but some day I may

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get that dollhouse -- just to have -- just to have that so that's what you wanna be looking you know

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every so often do an inventory and say
you know what am i what am i holding

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from the past and did I use that that
negative experience did I use it for

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something good or am I still mad at this
person and once you do that and you find

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what you didn't like and what you have
learned and you come to terms with that

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not in a fake way but in a in a real way
then you you have a really great start

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-- so that would be meditating focusing our thoughts -- yes exactly that would be yes that would be

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sitting quietly somewhere doesn't have
to be in a dark room listening to om

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and stuff can be anywhere and just
bringing back these memories and seeing

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if seeing how they affected you and if
there is something you still don't like

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you are still not happy with see how
you can you can learn from it and say

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well you know I might not have liked
it then but am I happy with where I'm at

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now because where you are at now is
because of everything that happened

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before and if you are not happy with
where you are at now then do something

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about it other than bitching about it
take action take action it's the only

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way otherwise ten years down the road
-- you are still on the same place --

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you'll actually be worse off -- so kapha is
a good thing is to meditate think about

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what is pitta? --  in terms of how do
you deal with pitta well first you got

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to deal with kapha then you with pitta

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-- or should we talk about vata which one's
better? -- well kapha is your foundation kapha

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is what you want to make sure you have a
solid foundation and then that will

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enable you to deal with pitta and vata
and whether you're gonna deal with pitta

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first or vata first is what you look at
your tendencies so if your tendencies

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are more to get angry and disrespect the
other person then it's more the pitta

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that you wanna look at if your tendency
is to turn within and start crying and

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feeling sorry for yourself then you deal
more with vata -- ok but it's good to deal with

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kapha first or is it good to deal --
it is it's best to deal with kapha

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first because you can do that you can do
that at any time and that's that's what

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gives you the introspection and dealing
with the past and looking at any grudges

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that you hold whether against yourself
or others that will give you the

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foundation the sustenance to deal with
the other ones

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-- okay so let's go to pitta  --  pitta pitta 
is you wanna you wanna recognize that

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you are getting angry and that's that's
what is the most difficult part

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sometimes is to recognize that you are
getting angry and that you're rude at

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others and to stop blaming it on
genetics and to stop blaming it on the

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society on the job on the boss on the
part -- on anything external -- so you need to

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recognize that and then you then you you
you have to be aware of when

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you're doing it and the easiest way is
ask somebody that you are really

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comfortable with ask them to point that out
to you when you do it and that's that's

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the easiest way to go about it but if
you don't have can you still figure it

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out or do you have to have somebody
around if you don't then if you don't

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have somebody around to ask for that
then you just you you just make a point

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it may take a little bit more effort to
to remind yourself that you're doing it

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that's it and you just you just pay
attention so you you need to be able to

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identify the emotion is it anger is it
frustration what is it

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-- so kapha is meditation pitta is more
awareness -- yes pitta is more awareness -- so what is vata? -- vata is

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awareness also but awareness of your
mood swings awareness of why do things

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throw you off awareness of why do you
feel like a victim

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pitta is more of awareness of why do you
behave like a dictator

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whereas vata is why are your emotions so
scattered so all over the place what

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makes you so afraid
-- so between awareness and meditation you

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can take care of all three of your
doshas -- exactly -- so now that we know what

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it is in balance and what it is out of
balance we'll be right back to talk

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about how you can become tridoshic --
exactly and have the richest emotional

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world possible stay tuned

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-- and we're back again so I've been told
on many occasions that you're born like

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vata or you're born pitta or you're born
and all these tests tell you whether

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you're vata pitta or kapha
and that's what you're stuck with -- yeah

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and then you take herbs and blah blah blah --  so
you're telling me though that we should

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be all three emotionally and -- mentally 
and even physically -- how can you be

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all three emotionally and mentally we'll
get into physically another day but

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we're talking about the mind so
emotionally and mentally how can that be? --

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ah that's what the ancient
Ayurvedic texts say actually the ancient

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Ayurvedic texts say that you want to
have balanced doshas you want to have

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balanced bio-energies and of course
when we say balanced it's it's a dynamic

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balance it's not a strict line if you do
not have a dynamic balance of all three

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then chances are that whatever is more
prevalent is going to go out of balance

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faster and especially if it is the vata
because the vata is real quick to go out

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of balance and I mean think about it
right we said that vata is about having

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a perspective having having flexible
emotions and flexible mind having

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emotional intelligence pitta is about
having that resilience that courage that

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strength to work with the others and
kapha is about understanding the others

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about having
the that empathy what's going on with

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them don't you want to have all three
doesn't it sound that if you have all

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three you have a rich stable emotional
world and then you know you don't

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become the emotional yo-yo with the up
and downs you don't become the dictator

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you don't become the person who holds
grudges -- and by just taking turmeric I

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should be able to take care of that problem
--  no it's not gonna do it it's it's

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not gonna do it you you you have it's it
takes more work than that you have to do

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the meditation you have to pay attention -- 
you have to learn yourself -- you have to

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learn yourself it's like know thyself
I think Socrates said that -- so stoicism

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again is always a good fallback when we're
talking about Ayurveda -- exactly stoicism is easier

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for us to relate to for a lot of the
Westerners ah and going back to the

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Upanishads it's all about understanding
yourself they they both say the same

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thing is meditate and pay attention -- and
so you can become all three -- yes yes you

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can become all three as long as you know
what your tendencies are because like

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you said yes we are born with certain
tendencies that doesn't mean that we are

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perfect the way we are born and the way
our tendencies are and that's the huge

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huge misconception in the commodity Ayurveda
 they say our prakruti what we are

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born with is what is perfect for us and
that is

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absolutely not true what we are born
with is the tendencies that we have it's

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not what's perfect for us what is then
there is no such thing as perfect but

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what is the best for us is having the
dynamic balance of the three bio

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energies so our tendencies can become
great assets to help us cultivate what

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we are missing but if we do not
understand our tendencies and if we do

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not control them we we are we are
missing our purpose in life it's a sin

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actually we are missing our mark -- which
then will have to go into Greek since

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you just said that what is the word in Greek
for sin? --  it is amartia and if you break

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it down from ancient Greek and all that
it is missing your mark missing your

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purpose in life and that is actually a
sin it has nothing to do with the modern

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conventional religious concept of sin it
is missing our purpose -- our Dharma --

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our Dharma do not making the best of
this human experience -- so if you do it

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right you get you start knowing who you
are -- yes -- and after you know who you are

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you then can work on bringing everything
together equally -- exactly -- and then you

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can assist other people -- exactly -- because you then
can take somebody that's telling you no

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and through doing knowing who you are
and doing all that you then can

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negotiate -- yes -- to get what you want and
also get what they want -- exactly -- so both people

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leave happy -- yes helping both parties
first you understand

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yourself the one party and then you can
build the common ground so you can help

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the other party so you can both make the
most of that human experience at that

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particular moment -- instead of just
getting mad or crying or getting stuck

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on a no on an ohi -- and making yourself feel terrible
and them feeling terrible and then

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making a mess of everything wasting 
that moment during this human

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experience being able to control your
emotions and your thoughts that is

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the only way to help yourself and if you
are not able to control your emotions

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then it means that you're addicted to
them and addictions -- that's a whole

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different talk -- but it's true I mean we most
of the time most people behave as if

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they are addicted to their emotions
-- is there a crystal since we are going to

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be doing the show in Georgia for what is
it December -- holistic holidays with the north georgia holistic

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guild -- and we're gonna be having crystals
there -- yes --

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is there a specific crystal for pitta kapha
because you already brought up larimar the last

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one -- in general any anything -- that we carry --  it
doesn't have to be crystal can be any

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practice that helps you become aware of
your emotions that helps you control

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your emotions no we are not talking
about crystals right now -- okay fine -- no ohi -- ohi -- and there is no

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common ground here it's my way 
or the highway -- fine -- we can always

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negotiate about it -- yes so I will go grab a
crystal and think about it -- and we'll be

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right back with Tim having the
crystal stay tuned

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-- and we're back to talk about emeralds
I've won the debate -- it was a negotiation emerald

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the green stone emerald can also be
grown in a lab so you have to be

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careful when you are getting emeralds you
want real emeralds emerald is all about

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empathy and like we already said you
want to build empathy you want to build

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your kapha bioenergy by meditating by
studying your past and figuring out

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whether you hold any grudges or not it's
going back to your history right we can

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only become better if we study history
-- and that's where you get into you have

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to know yourself you have to know your
history so you don't repeat it -- exactly

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exactly you have to become your own
teacher and actually emerald is the

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stone for Wednesday and Wednesday is the
day of Mercury -- it's also in the day of

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Odin -- yeah in Norse mythology the day of 
Odin -- and he lost his eye for knowledge

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-- exactly -- he gave up his eye to get knowledge --
for the divine and the divine is

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understanding ourselves it's not out
there the divine is here as long as we

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can understand it -- and Mercury is also in
Greek mythology is Hermes -- yes yeah

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Mercury is Hermes -- can't forget Greek -- yes we don't want to piss off any of the Gods

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-- yeah so Hermes Mercury and Odin -- exactly -- they're all about knowledge -- all about knowledge all

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about studying studying history and
first of all our personal history so we

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do not make the same mistakes there is a
Greek proverb that says that if you if

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you fool me no that's English right -- that's an English proverb -- yes I'm sure it started from ancient Greece -- what is it? -- In Greek it is " to dis

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examartein ouk andros sophou"  which means
to make the same mistake twice

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you are not a wise one how do you quit
making the same mistake over and over

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-- and that's through knowing yourself --
through self-study go back and figure

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out whether that doll house
traumatized you or not -- hopefully it didn't --

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the future will show -- so that's it for --
that's it for this episode thank you all

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so much for being here
namaste kala may we all be well -- if you

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